EO

[antaine]

A little bit of back ground on me I started in EO as a Lvl 1 no subjob i was in the game for no longer then 10 mins when I recieved a pearl for this LS. For the most part i have stuck with it through out my journey in this game, and I have come a long way. And I can honestly say that a lot of the reason I made it to 75 is because of EO. I have made some wonderful friends. In EO. However, I don't believe that things should be said about people without that person being notified first. I am not new to the game but still realtivly new i've been playing for about 9 months now. Obviously those of you who know me personally my play schedual isn't a set schedual. I can be on late one day and early the next ya never know. If i'm on and there is a LS event going on I shouldn't be required to attened everyone of them. If I do that I'll barely get anything done. I know that is the road we are heading down. I'm ready for End Game but just not fully yet. I wish someone would have told me what was being said about me sooner but I wasn't. On that noet I am Resigning my EO pearl. And moving on. You guys were my family. Time for me to go give back to other ppl like u have given so much to me thanks. Antaine

[Markus]

So where did you get this information from?? All that was said about you (in PRIVATE officer forums) was your participation is lacking and that you needed to be told that. We were hoping that by telling you, that we would like you participate, that you actually would. Nothing bad was said about you.

Sorry if you are not ready for end game. But we are. And it isnt attending every single event, its attending the ones that take place when you are in game, wich you have very very rarely done.

You speak of getting things done for yourself? I understand, but we are group oriented and are trying to get things done for the group, not just ourselves (like we did for you since you were level 1). Sorry you cant be a part of that.

Best of luck to you and

Your welcome.

[tempus]

Moved to a more appropriate forum so that he can see the responses...

-t

[Krazi]

When the going gets tough, drop the pearl.

I'm sorry you dont feel right in our shell. Markus said everything I want to say.

I know its hard to come to every event. I know there are other things you want to get done, I'm the same way. I have many things I want to get done to. But why drop the pearl that has everyone you've known in it. Everyone that has helped you, supported you, and encouraged you to come with us? I dont get it?

Nobody has said anything bad about you, other than we would like you to come to more events when you can. Give up one of these others things you feel you need to do to support the people, members, family, that you have grown and benefitted from.

I'm sorry, I will say one more thing. I feel that your decision right now, as is, is selfish! And that is the first negative thing anyone has ever said about you.

W/e you decide good luck, happy we could help you!

[antaine]

Part for the group u say? As you and some of the older ppl in this LS have been aware i wanted to get to 75 to help ppl. People that actually know me can vouch for that. I went out with Fehral to help ppl when i didn't have a High Level job of my own. I have been help oriented. 3-4/5 times i get on the LS I say hello! EO does anyone need anything? but I guess that is just me trying get something for me.

[antaine]

I'm not droping the Pearl for either Shell. If the SH's decide to break it then so be it that is there job in this LS.

[Krazi]

Whoa calm down. All we are saying is come help EVERYONE by showing up for sky and other events. Randomly helping friends has abosuletly nothing to do with what we are talking about. Yes helping Fehral is nice and appreciated. But thats like me asking for thank yous from other members for helping Miruuk get a coffer key. It has no bearing.

You go to sky, help us kill shit for pop items or help us kill gods, everyone will be thankful. I'll be thankful, Markus will be thankful, and the person/persons you helped get some more gear to help strengthen us as a whole that can only be killed by 18+ people will thank you aswell.

Think about it. Dont get pissed off and defensive. Thats not how people resolve things.

[antaine]

I have seen a lot of ppl leave the shell recently whether or not the post about it or just carry another shell around. Something is Aray maybe yall should like into it.

[antaine]

look into it*

[Conina]

antaine said:

I have seen a lot of ppl leave the shell recently whether or not the post about it or just carry another shell around. Something is Aray maybe yall should like into it.

That is so vague:
who left, why did they leave, and how is this related to this topic???
if you wanna prove a point, stick to the point.

[Krazi]

Took it to PM's. Might as well lock it!

[Markus]

Didn't say you never helped. I said you rarely participated in the events we plan. Is that a lie? I'm sorry but I really don't think so. :/ If you are so willing and eager to help, why did you have to drop your pearl? If you are so willing and eager to help why is it that when 30 of us are doing something you can't come?

Maybe I am wrong, but you seem to be angry about the not confronting you/talking behind your back thing... Sorry, I am trying to run an LS and we try and have the same rules and treat everyone the same. So we periodically discuss how to approach the people who are not participating. I don't know why this upsets you. Would you rather I just break peoples pearls or do you think in most cases they deserve a chance to explain themselves? I prefer the later. So I make a post and try to uncover what is going on, sometimes officers know what's going on with certain members, so i seek there coucil first...

[Siltauk]

I dont think this was supposed to turn into a big rant :\ But somehow it did. I myself am a little biased in this situation for the fact that Ant is one of my R/L friends. PPL jumped the gun on this one. Got a little farther then IMO it should have. I dont think this should have been a public post niether.

/Sil

[tempus]

He posted in on-topic. I moved it here after removing his access to on-topic, which is what I do whenever someone quits the ls. Thus it was "public" in on-topic and now here.

-t