Ok,
so in 2005 I set off on a journey to date 12 women in 12 months. If I could actually hold a relationship for over 4 weeks, I counted her twice.
Anyways, at Girl #2
I dated her for a month, things were going great, she seemed happy in general and in bed. When she saw me I would notice the pupils of her eyes get bigger (something that typically happens when someone is happy to see another person).
One day it was "I want you to meet my family and take me fishing". The next day it was
Her:"you're the sweetest guy, but I just don't have time for a relationship".
Me: "Huh? What happened? Listen, if you aren't interested, or if I can't make you happy I understand, but don't give me some lame excuse."
Her:"It's not an excuse.... blah blah blah
Me: blah blah ..... blah
Her:blah blah
Me:"Well your excuse is ridiculous, I don't understand what going on, but I wish you well, goodbye".
Now for a long time this confused the hell out of me. I took several stabs at what could have been wrong, but I kept missing. I could tell when she was lying, I just couldn't guess what the truth was. Things were going well, I did no jackass thing to turn her off, I didn't understand what happened.
10 months later she is engaged, I was all wtf?
Today, a year later, I found out the rest of the story. She was engaged to her roommate, a chick.
Now it all makes sense! I laughed pretty hard when I found this out. I actually found this out from a friend on facebook who knew her from elsewhere. Coincidently, I am having coffee with her this week.