Leaving

[Panthercat-gone]

Well all this is one of he toughest things i have had to do but i think i am leaving FFXI......i am not happy playing game anymore find myself swearing all the time and just getting pissed off about anything......i have to step back an figure out if i like who i am atm and if i want to continue playing and makin others feel bad about stuff i do so good bye for now maybe i will be back if not take care and i will stop in on forums and drop a mess with love
Brenda

[Wishful]

I am sad to see you go panther. I hope you will return to game. But I do understand where you are coming from. My nausea break was well needed and I was debating too about coming back. Breaks from this game are a good thing imo. Gives you a chance to realize how much of RL you have put on the back burner... all for a game. I wish you the best and you will be missed. Look forward to seeing you in forums still.

[Panthercat-gone]

thanks wishy means alot to me this is really hard for me to do i am so sad atm not even funny but i have to do this i don't like how i act in the game anymore very short tempered and mean and that is not me so have to leave when i am swearing at LS for something not their fault don't know if i will come back but will come to forums see you in there
Brenda

[mirowr]

awwww pcat i'm really sad to see you go too, but we all reach our limits sometimes and I agree with Wishful that breaks from this game (or vacations if you will) really do help alot.. it's amazing how many people "quit" just to find themselves logging back in on a whim 3 months later.. I remember about half a year ago i didn't log into ffxi for two weeks because i was too busy with my friends and schoolwork, then two weeks turned into 3 months... and then there were these two days where i was sick as a dog and had nothing to do at home so i reactived my content IDs and i found the balance for myself. I never let FFXI get in the way of going out and having fun, if i have to ditch my party or miss an event that's how it goes.. I don't want to end up as the type of person who would lie to their friends to sit on their ass and play video games...

anyways i kind of went off on a little tangent

but kitty <3 pcat
come back soon!
<3

[tempus]

Go have a life again my dear, those of us w/out one will be here still, if you decide to come back.

-t

[zekk]

I already talked to ya on AIM about this.
Just remember -
if u go, ur gonna be missed a whole lot. But rest assure we kno it'll be for a good cause.
if you stay, ur not gonna be able to fix whats going on with ya at this moment in time.
FFXI is simply a phase, but friendship goes so far beyond that, so don't think of it as leaving us behind. Were always here if you need us.
Make the right choice my friend <3
~Chris

[lockejv]

Good luck Panthercat, hope to see you back soon. Breaks from FFXI are good, I've had quite a few.

[Ruuk]

Breaks are good - i'm certainly enjoying mine. I'll have a drink for you tonight. And who knows... maybe in a few weeks both of us will be back and having fun once again. Take care till then.

[drudge]

well pcat, have fun =)

i agree with ya. when you cuss at a video game, its time to stop till your cooled

[Meeka]

Brenda, just wanted to let you know that you did a great job yesterday when we were doing ZM4.. I know you were upset about everyone bein dead, but that's part of the game. It happens and no one was upset. As for the break, everyone needs a break sometimes. I took a 3 month break and I came back and enjoy the gamea again. Like Rowr, I found a balance too. Just don't want you to feel bad about yesterday. It's a game, we'll get the xp back (I did already actually ;o) and no one's upset. That's why I love doing raids with the linkshell because these guys are soooo understanding about when things don't go perfectly.

If you ever wanna chat, hit me up ^_^

~meeks

[corran]

Heh, yes, this ls is very understanding (EN key lost just the other night b/c I'm stupid). So we understand you need a break. However, pcat, I hope you'll come back someday so I can ride you again! ^^

[Panthercat-gone]

thanks all for understanding and support I need time to myself and Matt now i will think about coming back but atm just need the time away i will keep everyone updated on what i am doing an will be here if you ever want to IM i have yahoo and aol Catwomanpanther on both so drop me a mess anytime missing you all alot as it is....lol

[Itachisasuke]

sorry to see you go and i enjoyed our little PM session the other day^^ enjoy life and make sure to keep us informed. We all care for your very much and hope you return, i mean really what are we gonna do w/o our Pcat >.> You know i'll always be here if u need anything, just gotta ask.

[Panthercat-gone]

well i have had many talks with lots of the LS and (you will be happy to know or not...lol) i have come to the decission that i am going to be staying on in the game but things are going to change in my game play....lol no more monday and weds late nights (til i get my extra cables)
tues and thurs no nights after 7pm EST this is going to be my time i spend with matt as well as some friday nights i am cutting back my time in game but will still be on so will see you all soon i should be back by friday thank you all for the support and love from everyone
Brenda ;D

[Aegnor]

yay! I feel like I missed the whole thing, but after I heard that you were leaving yesterday I must say I was displeased. Anyway it'll be good to have you back, and I'm glad it's going to be on your terms. Woot--see you on there.